Re: abstinence

I apologize for my presumptuous comments about males. I do believe men have a lot to share that could in fact be very helpful to others. I know many talented and effective male psychologists who are very sensitive to female needs. My statement, however, was to those men who take an outragous stance on women's issues without any consideration for what women want or need. But again I apologize for making my statement to general.

On the 'waiting to have sex after marriage'comment, I did state that was my opinion and I do not appreciate my personal beliefs being attacked. I do not agree with sleeping around to find a suitable partner, I believe that if we are truly in love the way God meant for man and woman to be, that the sex will be wonderful. After all, if you haven't slept around with every Tom, Dick, and Harry, then you will not be comparing your mate to others and the sex will be the best you have ever had. Please do not get me wrong, I am not now attacking your beliefs, I just wish that people could stop thinking about the sex so much and start falling in love. I believe that if we would just allow our hearts to guide us, God will lead us to that perfect match and everything will fit perfectly that way God intended.

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Re: abstinence , by Sean M. Benedict, 4/9/00 Re: abstinence , by Monica, 4/10/00 Re: abstinence , by Kimberly, 4/10/00 Christian Counselor, by Marty Klein, Ph.D, 4/11/00 Re: Christian Counselor, by Kimberly, 4/26/00 Re: Christian Counselor, by Monica, 4/28/00 Re: Christian Counselor, by Kimberly, 5/2/00 Re: Christian Counselor, by Sean M. Benedict, 5/4/00 Re: Christian Counselor, by Kimberly, 5/7/00 Re: Christian Counselor, by jacksteel50@yahoo.com, 05/07/01 Re: "Grow Spiritually"?, by A.Quest, Ph.D., 07/26/00 Re: Spiritual Growth?, by Jane, 07/27/00 Re: Spiritual Growth?, by A.Quest, 07/27/00 Re: Spiritual Growth?, by Jane, 07/27/00 Re: Spiritual Growth?, by A. Quest, 07/27/00 Re: Spiritual Growth?, by Jane, 07/27/00 Re: Spiritual Growth?, by A. Quest, Ph.D., 07/27/00 Re: Spiritual Growth?, by Jane, 07/27/00 Re: Spiritual Growth?, by MOnica, 07/29/00 Re: Skepticism Is Not Cynicism, by A. Quest, Ph.D., 07/29/00 Re: Skepticism Is Not Cynicism, by Heather, 07/30/00 Re: Skepticism Is Not Cynicism, by Quest, 07/31/00 To Dr. Quest, by Monica, 07/31/00 Re:To Dr. Quest, by Quest, 07/31/00 Re: To Dr. Quest, by Quest, 07/31/00 Clients' beliefs and values, by Heather, 08/02/00 Re: Clients' beliefs and values, by Quest (Still Here), 08/02/00 Re: Spiritual Growth?, by More Quest, 07/29/00 Re: Spiritual Growth?, by Jane, 07/30/00 Re: Spiritual Growth?, by Lindsay Smith, 04/28/01 Trying to Make Effable the Ostensibly Ineffable , by Quest, 04/29/01 Re:Trying to Make Effable the Ostensibly Ineffable , by Jane, 05/02/01 Re:Trying to Make Effable the Ostensibly Ineffable , by Quest, 05/03/01 Re:Trying to Make Effable the Ostensibly Ineffable , by , 05/04/01 Re:Trying to Make Effable the Ostensibly Ineffable , by Jane, 05/04/01 Woops...I used ambiguous phrasing, by Quest, 05/05/01 MEDITATION & SPIRITUALITY, by Lindsay Smith, 09/01/01 Re:MEDITATION & SPIRITUALITY, by Lindsay Smith, 09/02/01 Crazy Horse for PResident!!, by Monica, 07/31/00 be careful of assumptions, by Marty Klein, 08/01/00 Re:be careful of assumptions, by Monica, 08/02/00 Re:be careful of assumptions, by Quest Again, 08/02/00 Raspberries!!, by Monica, 08/03/00 Reply, by Quest, 08/04/00 "Spititual Growth"--Still Reading, by Jane, 08/04/00 Re:Correction, by Jane, 08/04/00 Re:, by Lindsay Smith, 04/28/01 Re:Raspberries!!, by Jane, 08/04/00 Re:Raspberries!!, by Monica, 08/10/00 Re: Beside the Point, by Quest, 08/10/00 Re: Spiritual Growth?, by Dr. Barbara Young, 02/01/01

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