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Re:the handshake?
Joseph Wehry · 11/29/01 at 9:59 ET
Hi Max, I was asked a similar question by a friend of mine about three years ago who bought (to my dismay) a book on "How to pick up chicks with hypnosis." Yes, they used the word chicks. I suggested my friend work on other social skills first, humorously (at least to me) suggesting he start with the word "chick." (I'm happy to report he is now dating.) Anyway, two questions you may want to consider. Do you personally feel comfortable using the handshake induction. (Or would other techniques fit YOU better?) And, no matter how good you get with the handshake induction, do you recognize a client's right and ability to choose not to experience trance with you at that moment? (Or, would other methods suit THEM better?) Read and practice also the contents in Experiencing Hypnosis (Erickson and Rossi, 1981, Irvington Publishers). I think it is significant in this publication that the handshake induction is listed in a section studying catalepsy. The handshake induction is introduced and suggested ONLY AFTER studying and practicing hundreds of times, the induction of catalepsy by guiding an arm up and down, induction by guiding an arm to a stationary position, and moving catalepsy. Please keep in mind, too, that the technique is simply (!!!) a means to secure the client's attention, focus him/her inward, and arouse wondering or expectancy for further suggestions. The handshake is not something you are "doing to" someone else (in the sense that it not a one-way communication.) If you are left wondering about your suggestions, smile, gaze or touch, you'll miss an important question: WHAT IS THE PATIENT DOING IN RESPONSE? Reportedly, it took Erickson decades of practice to get so good at this. So you may want to give yourself a realistic goal given your skills and training. I also value Dr. Erickson's advice to not practice with patients who have a right to expect therapist proficiency. I remember when I learned how to play the piano, how stiff my fingers were and my hessitation in playing the notes. I don't even recall breathing until after I was through playing a song. (I put the O PAIN in piano.) After years of practice I learned how you can use a lighter touch, listen to what you're playing and let the music flow. Now I actually enjoy it - I think others do too... :-) Good luck, likewise, with your work.
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