My first inclination would be to help normalize the fantasy for both parties. After all, the idea of an older, more experienced woman educating a younger man into sex is a very common fantasy. It allows for the male to give up the heavy (and tedious) responsibility of being the "expert/doer" and allows for more freedom. It can also allow the female partner the enjoyment of taking the lead role and instructing her partner in how she prefers to receive pleasure. And this change in power roles may be exactly what the female partner is upset about. Is she uncomfortable with having to take responsibility?
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