I think you have given US a few hints. You post at a forum for professionals to discuss professional issues, but what you post is a personal issue and you seek for yourself personal advice. This tells us that for you, awareness and respect for intepersonal boundaries may be lacking, if your post is a serious one rather than one that just pokes fun at this forum. Perhaps you select a place, like this forum, where respect for boundaries is also lacking even while awareness of boundaries is not lacking here. In that case you would lack awareness and respect for boundaries and then seek places like this forum where disrespect for boundaries is allowed to occur all the time so that people can then be reprimanded for their lack of boundary respect. This then helps you become aware of boundaries by harsh lessons from persons who are aware but who leave themselves open to have their boundaries disrespected. Why don't you find a forum where your question will be respected and where you won't be reprimanded? Or perhaps it is simply that your purpose is to poke fun at some types of women who are like those who run some of these BOL forums--to poke fun, that is, of people who are very aware of boundaries but who set themselves up to have their bondaries disrepsected so that others can then be reprimanded for disrespecting boundaries.
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