Re:Sexual avoidance

Just a guy's opinion, but something tells me he's not turned on to you. I don't know your guy, but I know me. If I love a woman, am turned on to a woman, HOT for her, I'm plotting every hour in my mind the next "thing" I want to try on her sexually! Different kinds of massage, love-
making positions, different ways to tongue-lash her, what kind of scents to try to mix into the almond oil, etc, etc. Get the point?

That leaves YOU with a problem. Live with it, stop beating him up over it, or decide you want something better for yourself, and move on. I've had that problem with gals I've gone out with and it's a problem I can't live with. The sex is too important, and is a major glue holding two people together. The depths of rejection when one wants and the other does not isn't something most relationships can survive. It's not the sex, it's the mis-match in expectations. I don't know how valid is my opinion, but it is mine own..

Good luck...

J

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