Certainly the age difference is cause for concern. Having said that, we have no context here, other than previous abuse of the 12 year old, that indicates sexual abuse now. I used to do therapy with JSO's (juvenile sex offenders) and I was always struck by what appeared to be a total lack of information on "normal" sexual behavior. We simply don't have enough information on what is normal...although I think parents and puritans would be shocked at the truth.
So, we settle for definitions that aren't about the behavior, but the presumed motive and method (coersion, manipulation, etc).
I agree with Marty here, tread carefully. Use supervision/consultation if necessary, pay attention to any countertransference you might (understandably) be experiencing, and watch the family dynamics...what role does the 12 year old play? How are the aunt and uncle responding, assuming that the 5 year old is their natural child? There seem to be a lot of hidden dynamics that could be in play here.
Best wishes and good luck...
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