Dear Marty.....could you respond by e-mail to this question
my e-mail address is Allignment@aol.com
I recently was involved in relationship with a woman who claimed she was a dominatrix....into sm...and bisensual
she was also a massage therapist and claimed many angelic abilities....was severly abused and sexually molested by her father..and others...i feel in love with the person until i was slowly introduced to her need to be tied up.
grabbed very hard and held down....she saw her self as many strange personalites...one of which was mistriss marie who could dish out discipline and new the needs of others.
she also had a permanint eye liner tatoed on to remider of the her poor choices in men....many of the men she had been involved with had strange sexual perversons.....i could not stay in this relationship as i felt voilated by participating and it was very hard to be with her...She was also in to strange pagan ritualistic sexual practices which ritualized the sexual parts of the body....she worries about bein discovered by her commuity and keeps several lifestyles going.....i am a therapist and i some how lost myself in this relationship......i would appreciate some feed back about all this...sadmasichism..sex masichism...sm
....this person...has a hate for men.....and only became involved with me because i was sensitive....my sensitivity turned to anger and disrespect as i realized there were sever violations to my own well being.........
I am very sad....and it has taken me several months..to deal with my own shadow issues...and as a counselor i want to understand what lessons and or understandings i can use for other clients who may be involved with or are on the road to healing.......your response to this issue is appreciated............steve ma
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