In my experiences with such men, I have found that getting directly to the root of the primal sexual urge is key. As you know, women generally seek emotional partners. Men on the other hand tend to be more focused on lustual, sexual acts. Lesbians then tend to retain the same longing for emotional connections, while gay men still have the overwelming feelings of lust. In other words, each gender will act out in the same ways regardless of their sexual preference. I have encountered several (3 to be axact) such cases. In each case, shame in the act was a large issue. However, ultimately, 2 of the three men eventually came "out of the closet" and welcomed a new lifestyle. As unhealthy as I feel that is, personally, their stability and confidence in themselves was boosted greatly. They were no longer shame based, and accepted their gayity as normal. The third man eventually married a lovely young woman. It is my proffesional opinion that he was simply not sexually satisfied with the women he had been with. Circumstances in his childhood compelled him to curiosity about men, and so he experimented. He found a comfort in knowing that men were feeling the same extreme sexual felings as him. He wasn't gay. He just found people who were as frequently aroused as he was. What is it that introduced him to men? That is an important question here. How long has this been going on for, and with what degree of regularity does he pratice these acts?
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