I know exactly what you are going through. I just ended a long term relationship with a sociopath. I thought he was the love of my life but that was just a cover. The real person is a con man who lies and cheats to everyone in his life and at 36 he will not change and does not believe he has to. He has no conscience and takes no responsibility for his actions...everything is everyone else's fault. He has jumped straight into a new relationship yet is still perusing me and numerous other women. He has debt collectors knocking on his door...(something I could not cope with), a trail of burnt friends, tells them a web of lies without any conscience. When I think of all he has done I get angry and for a long time questioned myself, my self worth.. what had I don't to make this happen. I am one of a string of people he has hurt and I won't be the last.. I know ultimately he will grow old and lonely. Sometimes I want to yell at him to make him realise all the pain he has caused but I know it will be wasted breath. He never takes criticism nor help...and I would be another 'out to get him' I feel for his mother who has been through this for far longer than I. He has put her through hell and continues this without caring. I can walk away, she has to live with this everyday of her life and it has affected her more than he could ever care to imagine, financially and emotionally. One thing that has came out of this is I have formed a bond with his family through understanding this.. something he will probably never let happen. What a sad life to lead.
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