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Unread May 4th, 2006, 03:23 AM
Brian O'Neill Brian O'Neill is offline
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Default Re: Shame theory and Gestalt therapy

Hi Brendan

I understand the idea of what we say here coming from and "invisible" background. The very fact that I cannot see people or see/hear their emotions or affect does makes these posts difficult at times.

I imagine it is also easier to project what we think the background might be when someone posts. To project what we THINK people are feeling or not saying.

All this is dis-connective and, as Bob Lee writes on shame, shame is an experience of dis-connection.

I am also interested in what you wrote about primary school... could you say a little more?

Brian
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