This behavior seems to be something you aren't going to be able to come to terms with. If you find it unacceptable in the relationship, is he willing to give it up? If not, there may be a problem. I know I'll get slammed for saying this, but an online forum is not the place to address this issue. The people who frequent these forums, myself included perhaps, tend to be somewhat defensive about our online activities. That is why you find many more nontherapists here than therapists. Seek out a real person to ask about this -- preferably a marriage and family therapist. The situation may not be all it seems. But then, it may be more. You'll find you get much better insight from a real person. Don't fall into the same trap he has by trying to get needs met online. You don't know who is offering advice. Really. Good luck.
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