Well I'm glad you finally got what I was talking about. Yes, my main concern is my right to privacy, peace and quiet, and safety. This guy just doesn't have much respect for the rights of others, and he's the kind of guy you'd just as soon wish he didn't know you exist. I called the police primarily because I couldn't get him off my property. I figure after the 10th time of shouting that he'd decide to do the smart thing, but now he's angry with me for calling the police. He was also trying to break in my back door by pounding on the window, which, fortunately is of plexiglass. He "just wanted to talk to her." And I did give my neighbor feedback on this early on, as she seemed to seek my advice. I just didn't give her the kind of advice she was looking for, in terms of how to live with him and not walk on eggshells. I felt at the time I had a vested interest in doing what I could to keep this creep from moving in next door to me. As far as she's concerned, I feel bad, as I've lost a friend. I really enjoyed having her as a neighbor, and it was nice to know that I had someone right next door to keep an eye on the house an animals if I went out of town, or that had a key if I locked myself out. We were just great back yard neighbors, but that can no longer be. That was her choice. He won't "allow" her to talk to me, as I dared to stand up to him and if she's friends with me that means she's taking my side. Admittedly I take this as her taking his side. My parting words to her were that nothing further comes into my property, and that I am not getting involved in her problems except that I told her I would help out if she feels she's in danger of physical harm, and by now she knows what kind of help I"m willing to provide (911). But no I'm not one to get involved if I don't have to and I don't believe in telling people how to run their lives, however stupid their decisions may seem to me. ;-)
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